Yes, like all the other things we like to teach our children, politics is part of it. Admittedly, it can be difficult to hold your own with all this political jargon. But there are small, simple techniques to explain to your little ones the importance and place of politics in our society. We let you discover them.
Why talk about politics with our children?
You ask yourself: Does it really make sense to talk about politics with your child? Oh well. Of course you have the choice. But it will soon allow him to do so develop as a responsible citizen and take aware of the differences that exist around him.
“The child goes through a physical, emotional, intellectual, but also political development. If he lacks this dimension, he risks feeling less comfortable in social life and will deprive himself of the satisfaction of wanting to influence the course of events that affect him and society.” Denis Langlois, lawyer, writer and author of “Politics,” explained children (and others) at Doctissimo
1 – Accompany your child in their questions
If you’re part of the Head First team, change your approach. If you want to discuss politics with your child, this is it better come from him or her.
You can talk about certain concepts B. to connect with everyday elements “Why is the school on strike? » ; “Why are there rich and poor? “. It is important to listen to him and answer all his questions.
“The best thing is actually that the conversation comes from the children. It’s also pretty rare that they don’t talk about it. But if this is not the case, it can be good to approach the subject and in particular the institutions and the powers of the President, since they will learn it at school anyway, “advises child psychiatrist Stéphane Clerget in western France
2 – Adopt a customized language
We don’t teach you anything. We know, and more importantly we trust you, that you won’t need it complicated terms that your child does not understand at all. But the idea is to be able to adjust your language so that your cherub.ne can associate it with terms from the political field. For example, if they tell you that a situation is “not fair,” you can do that address the issue of injustice and community rules learn to live together.
Of course, if they expand their comments and interventions needs further explanation and details. Around the age of 8 or 10, the child needs precise answers, scales of calculation. It’s a perfect opportunity inform him of the number of deputiesher role or even you Immerse yourself in the development of political organizations.
They are also between 11 and 13 years old a challenge phase. Ideal location to talk about French Revolution and Resistance.
“Dialogue about politics is also important for young people. Indeed, the adolescent can use politics to turn against his parents. It is therefore interesting to teach them how to debate without criticizing everyone’s opinion and by learning to listen to each other, which is not easy for this age group. As an adult, you must then be able to listen to your child’s arguments, even if they are reluctant,” child psychiatrist Stéphane Clerget told Ouest-France
3 – Help your child learn
In the beginning you will be the parent of knowledge. With each question, your child will turn to you for the answer. But to further develop critical thinking and curiosity, it is important to do so Help him find information himself.
If you ask a question Join him and show him how to do research. In a book, on the internet or in a newspaper, teach him to discover new terms and form his own opinion.
4 – Express your political opinions within the household
The idea is not to recruit your own child, but to do it growing up in an environment where debate and respect make sense. It’s important not to say “he’s bad,” “he’s nice,” and even less “you have to choose X.” Just help him develop his critical sense and explain it to him the reasons for such choice or decision.
“It is imperative that they recognize what is at stake. Don’t be afraid to ‘contaminate’ your child with their political or religious opinions, but accept them, emphasizing that they are ours and that other people have others. (…),” psychoanalyst Catherine Vanier argues in an interview with Psychology magazine
5 – Don’t neglect certain “taboo” topics
Terrorism, racism, security, immigration… it’s true that some topics can be more difficult to discuss with your child and alarming. But it would be a waste of time not to talk about it. Your little ones will one day pull the worms out of your nose.
So, Don’t be afraid to discuss and talk about it without emotional attachment. Sylvie Baussier, author of Les Élections, Q&A with Nathan, strongly recommends do not anticipate children’s questions and wait for them to formulate their questions first.
On the other hand, if despite all these little tips you still don’t feel comfortable. There are many books that popularize politics, only for the beautiful eyes of your children. In the list we have:
During this 2022 presidential term, here are some great ways to talk politics with your kids. Any other tips? Come and discuss it in our forum.